Counting down nih….sebentar lagi udah 1,5 tahun! Cepet juga yahhhh (coba aja lu besarin dia hehehehe), with Joice every things are fun sebenarnya..sometimes she’s just so silly and funny…she does things and then she laughs to it hehehe…the problem is sekarang dia sudah belajar cara engga mau alias nolak habis-habisan dan marah kalau dilarang…yeee kan for your own goodness, joiceeee…tapi teteeeeuuuppp aja dia masih complain dan angry kalau ditegur…caranya: angkat tangan dan gaya mau mukul.
Kalau lagi pergi-pergi, its just so embarrassing..dikira orang, dia ga diajar sopan santun kali yah…tapi yah memang sudah ditegur and no changes. Tadinya even worse, bisa jambak rambut orang or tarik baju, tapi setelah dia belajar to say a word. Dia bisa panggil itu orang, jadi no aggression happen ..fiuh…anyway, gaya mukul nya ini cukup disturbing and destructive. Dan sasaran empuk dia adalah mbak nya…duh…ini berdua mungkin shio nya chiong hahahaha just kidding….ni mbak emang baru dan ga bisa ajak dia main, so she actually doesn’t like her. If you find the reason, you just can’t find it out. Mbak does nothing, the chemical isn’t there……joice doesn’t like her. Titik. That’s all…..
I tried many ways to decrease her bad habit…but still until now I’m struggling with it…sometimes I succeed but sometimes it didn’t work out…*sigh
Pernah sekali dia teriak-teriak karena ga mau bobo, minta keluar kamar. I didn’t let her to go out. She just screamed in fornt of the door (trus tangannya scratched mau buka pintu gituuuu). I waited about 15 mins, until she called “mama…, mama..” then I hugged her and held her on the bed, but she refused and went again to the door. (ya ampuuunnnn) then I just kept quiet and waited again for another 10 mins. The finally she called mamamamama…so this time I talked to her, that its her naptime and she looked sooo tired with red eyes…so I hugged and put her on my lap. I sang for her and tapped her hands. Suddenly she just kept quiet and enjoyed the moment. Not long after that, she closed her eyes and slept. I put her on bed and I smiled really wide (sendirian senyum senyum gila hehehehe)…doh..she really tested my patience…but I knew that she did it on purpose because there was no tear at all! Haha…..
So everyday is just like a roller coaster of experiences with her. How to deal with her behavior is such a great challenge for me. Theories without practices are really nothing….lately, she did manyyyy things to test my patience, but I also got manyyyyy ways to cope with it hehe! Just pray for widom from God day by day to handle our toddler….
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