with papa...he he he

a morning...

one morning...after we woke up, i rushed to the toilet....

joice was alone in the room, she shouted; aahhhh...

and i said, wait, joice...mama is coming...

a few more minutes, ahhhhh (again)

i went out from toilet, she's already in this position
(look! baterai telpon pun sampe keluar...) jadi ternyata yang masuk ke kolong adalah tutup baterai, mau diambil ga sampai, mau keluar, tapi stuck di tengah..wahahahaha..

playing session

Last Sunday....

joice's papa was having something important to work, but i really wanted Joice to go out and play he he....so kung kung and pho pho were willing to take us to grand indo

Ada satu playground yang lumayan bagus, bersih, dan cocok dengan umur Joice. the price is cheap too...

Joice was playing for an hour...keringetan dan baju basah semua :) she played for one hour. full ga brehenti, cuma stop untuk minum lalu lari-lari lagi, my tummy was so big. i am in my 34th week of pregnancy.... thank God ada pho pho yang temenin Joice lari dan ajakin main... he he...i just stood outside and tried to take as many as pictures, tapi susah banget, Joice nya mobil terus....lari sana sini,

she really had a fun time!

an afternoon

This afternoon,I need to pay some bills at office so joice tagged along with me and my mom :) karena di office nya ada playgorund indoor for kids!

While waiting for the long queue, joice played inside...

I met some mommies too,mungkin karena liburan,anak-anak juga diajak..daripada di rumah. Di dalam ruangan,ada 2 tv video game yang cukup canggih and playground yang manjat-manjat,a playmat, and tables with puzzles on it. Beberapa mommies datang bukan untuk paying bills,tapi hanya ajak anaknya main...:) anyway, I like observing people and see what they do (kepoooo ha ha). Ada 1 mommy,anak yang pertama about 10 yrs old, anak ke 2,girl lagi ,about 7, dan 1 lagi baby about 8 months old with mbak yang gendong lagi bobo. Mama lagi sibuk ngobrol dgn mama lain di depan.anak2 semua di dalam ruangan...ahhhh I just wondering,if I were her, mau ga yah,punya anak lagi,kalau joice udah kelas 5sd! Wahahahaha mengulang masa baby kembali...I don't think sooo...another mom,anaknya dua,yang 1 abour 6,girl,yang satu seumur joice,boy. Wkt kita masuk,dia memandang kita dgn tatapan judes..wow wow...! Kita baru aja sampe...so,we just ignore her too. Satu lg,anaknya girl sekitar 1 thn 2 bln. Belum lancar jalan,mamanya is sooo sweeett and sabarrrr banget. Speaking english to her daughter,jelasin hal satu2 dgn sabar,dan lemah lembut...ah so not me hihihihihih I just speak with normal tone to joice,and sometimes even lebih strict lagi he he he... (Joice gitu loh,lari sana sini hehehehe)

And last one, one boy baru 6 thn,but he's very tall,udah kaya 8 thn. He doesn't want to share toys with these little toddlers, padahal itu main masak-masakan! Goodness. Mamanya cuma duduk di luar,dgn tatapan cukup sadis. It turned out, dia ngaku klo dia the only child.pantas...no sharing at all...

Joice herself,juga kadang sulit utk berbagi. Mungkin masih umurnya,and mungkin belum ada konsep teman,jadi mainan bagi dia,ya milik dia...so many kinds on mom that produce so many kinds of children. I don't know how people look at me too. But I try my best to be better mom for joice and others. To community. Gimanapun,kita hidup perlu socialize dan teman-teman seumuran,so kita juga perlu membina hubungan baik toh...this make me thinking: what kind of person/mom am I?? Yang annoying,yang lembut,yang sopan,or yang ga disukai?? ‎​♓έ♓έ♓έ.... Whatever I am,yang penting kita juga harus terus koreksi diri kalau salah,minta Tuhan utk membantu mengubah karakter sulit kita dan berbaur dgn banyak orang...

Kebanyakan apa yang kita kerjakan,itulah yang dicopy oleh anak kita. Jadi pepatah like mother like daughter itu mungkin cocok... He he...apa yang kita kerjakan,akan jadi teladan buat anak-anak. Banyak sekali peran mama dan berbagai jenis mama yang menjalani perannya, dalam peran itu,sungguh butuh kebijaksanaan dari Tuhan,tanpa itu,kita jadi kehilangan arah dan bingung harus bereaksi apa...

Keep praying and doing my best for God and also for my beloved family! :)

this is mbok mbok...

Joice: mama, I like to play with your sarong..please wrap it around me..


so actually, she really asked me to wrap it around her, of course I made up the words but I know what she really wanted ha ha....

Achievements at 19th month

heavy and heavier....

I feel heavy and even heavier in these past few days... I walk slower and lazy to bend on my kness to reach something, nevertheless I stiLl eat a lot! He he

I need more time to stand up and after I stand up,I don't want to sit down so soon, I prefer sitting on a nice coach to sitting on floor like usual when I play with joice...

I feel guilty when I can't run around with joice, she loves kicking balls then catch it again,but I can't do this kind of activity with her anymore...
I like sitting with her and reading her some books...doing something in slow things..no need much movements :) she enjoys it too somehow...

We read books together and these two days she can memorize the shape of star,circle,square,and triangle. Its all in mandarin. I'm thinking to give her one language in each concept. I believe she can speak indonesian and english very soon after she starts school years. So I keep speaking mandarin as mother language as long as she's still with me all time.

Now, her vocabulary has increased too. She can speak 'cou cou' means jalan-jalan, hehehehe but mama really lazy to do cou cou lately .... But I still try to bring her outside for fresh air every afternoon,like around 5 pm,after her shower,we would go out,this time I let her ride on her bike so I just pushing her around. Its much more easy for me and my heavy body :) beacuse when she walks,she doesn't want to walk, she wants to run! Hahahaha

I really enjoy these last moments with her as much as I can...this week will be another more week...and when the time flies...soon I'm going to give birth too, our time will be three of us,not two of us anymore...we'll be spending time together as three late,me,joice,and baby boy...meanwhile,I just want to cherish and enjoy every precious moment with joice...

Gosh...I still can't believe it will be around a month or 1,5 months more to labour time.....